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	<title>Comments on: Social Media Overshare Makes Me Emo</title>
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		<title>By: Daniel</title>
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		<dc:creator>Daniel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Feb 2010 21:09:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Social media has clearly been disruptive to our personal lives. We grew up thinking and approaching social interactions one way and now it&#039;s all different. 

At the same time, children are growing up with this medium as a part of their lives; they don&#039;t understand a world without it. How will their generation share their personal experiences as they mature? What does that mean for our society?

For me? I keep my networks intact (little point in passive-aggressive bridge burning) and keep my strongest negative emotions to myself (no point in sharing those with the world).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Social media has clearly been disruptive to our personal lives. We grew up thinking and approaching social interactions one way and now it&#8217;s all different. </p>
<p>At the same time, children are growing up with this medium as a part of their lives; they don&#8217;t understand a world without it. How will their generation share their personal experiences as they mature? What does that mean for our society?</p>
<p>For me? I keep my networks intact (little point in passive-aggressive bridge burning) and keep my strongest negative emotions to myself (no point in sharing those with the world).</p>
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		<title>By: George G Smith Jr</title>
		<link>http://jessicarandazza.com/social-media/personal-social-media/social-media-overshare-makes-me-emo/comment-page-1/#comment-632</link>
		<dc:creator>George G Smith Jr</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jan 2010 23:20:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Public and Private lives are in a state of flux.  Like Micah - although to a lesser scale - I live a public life. I&#039;m unashamed about living in a public life because the public helps me get through the ups and downs of life. I do it because I&#039;m not the type to heal in private.  When I recently had my heart broken - I needed to write this blog post: http://nosenseoftime.org/2010/01/fairly-a-fairy-tale/ - I needed to share because I needed my friends and those that don&#039;t know me make me feel better.  They help make me stronger and ultimately move on.  Does it turn off some people - of course.  But I like being me.  I like the ups and downs of emotions.  I didn&#039;t start blogging to not be me.  I started it because I wanted to share my life and that involves all the great things and all the bad things.

In the end, I have much more confidence because I am so public with everything.  I never feel alone and the blues or mean reds evaporate that much quicker.  It&#039;s probably why I stuck around on the web this long.  It brings people together.  It makes everything okay...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Public and Private lives are in a state of flux.  Like Micah &#8211; although to a lesser scale &#8211; I live a public life. I&#8217;m unashamed about living in a public life because the public helps me get through the ups and downs of life. I do it because I&#8217;m not the type to heal in private.  When I recently had my heart broken &#8211; I needed to write this blog post: <a href="http://nosenseoftime.org/2010/01/fairly-a-fairy-tale/" rel="nofollow">http://nosenseoftime.org/2010/01/fairly-a-fairy-tale/</a> &#8211; I needed to share because I needed my friends and those that don&#8217;t know me make me feel better.  They help make me stronger and ultimately move on.  Does it turn off some people &#8211; of course.  But I like being me.  I like the ups and downs of emotions.  I didn&#8217;t start blogging to not be me.  I started it because I wanted to share my life and that involves all the great things and all the bad things.</p>
<p>In the end, I have much more confidence because I am so public with everything.  I never feel alone and the blues or mean reds evaporate that much quicker.  It&#8217;s probably why I stuck around on the web this long.  It brings people together.  It makes everything okay&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Giving You Me.</title>
		<link>http://jessicarandazza.com/social-media/personal-social-media/social-media-overshare-makes-me-emo/comment-page-1/#comment-631</link>
		<dc:creator>Giving You Me.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jan 2010 22:07:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] this morning, my friend Jessica wrote a post about public breakups and social media oversharing. Which got me thinking. Ive done a good job (I think) of keeping the demise of my relationships as [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] this morning, my friend Jessica wrote a post about public breakups and social media oversharing. Which got me thinking. Ive done a good job (I think) of keeping the demise of my relationships as [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Micah Baldwin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Micah Baldwin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jan 2010 16:32:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I hate seeing posts like the facebook one becuase I know it usually means a friend of mine has been hurt. We question the sanity of living in public only when our personal pain gets shared. How do I deal? Me who lays it all out there via my blog, etc? Who makes connecting with him via phone, email or IM so easy?

I look for the real in people. It&#039;s easy to see, even though people feel that they can hide it behind a smile and a handshake in a hotel bar. I understand that any sharing when people who have no real connection to you are going to see it and react to it, and know that their opinion is truly meaningless. 

I judge my value based on the handful of people I truly love and trust. And I remove any agenda, that so many &quot;social media&quot; people seem to have, from the things and people that matter most.

I live in public because i view myself as a member of the world community. I live in public because I am proud of what I have become. I also know that at times, my life is sad, and I get just as emo as the next guy. Having people within my community telling me it&#039;s going to be ok outweighs the negative effect of the few who attempt to take advantage of the situation.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I hate seeing posts like the facebook one becuase I know it usually means a friend of mine has been hurt. We question the sanity of living in public only when our personal pain gets shared. How do I deal? Me who lays it all out there via my blog, etc? Who makes connecting with him via phone, email or IM so easy?</p>
<p>I look for the real in people. It&#8217;s easy to see, even though people feel that they can hide it behind a smile and a handshake in a hotel bar. I understand that any sharing when people who have no real connection to you are going to see it and react to it, and know that their opinion is truly meaningless. </p>
<p>I judge my value based on the handful of people I truly love and trust. And I remove any agenda, that so many &#8220;social media&#8221; people seem to have, from the things and people that matter most.</p>
<p>I live in public because i view myself as a member of the world community. I live in public because I am proud of what I have become. I also know that at times, my life is sad, and I get just as emo as the next guy. Having people within my community telling me it&#8217;s going to be ok outweighs the negative effect of the few who attempt to take advantage of the situation.</p>
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		<title>By: Melissa DelGaudio</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melissa DelGaudio</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jan 2010 15:45:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>For me, there definitely IS such a thing as &quot;too much information&quot;. Do I really want two-or-three thousand people knowing my personal business? *HELL* to the no. Everyone has personal business that is just that: PERSONAL. Other people&#039;s travails are none of my business, nor are mine theirs. 

Every now and then, I&#039;ll see a thread like the one you&#039;ve posted above. People can&#039;t just leave well enough alone. Even the well-intentioned come off sounding ... icky. The most awkward ones come from the people who change their status from &quot;in a relationship&quot; to &quot;it&#039;s complicated&quot;. GAG. 

I wish that people would just leave the relationship status thing [on FB] turned OFF.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For me, there definitely IS such a thing as &#8220;too much information&#8221;. Do I really want two-or-three thousand people knowing my personal business? *HELL* to the no. Everyone has personal business that is just that: PERSONAL. Other people&#8217;s travails are none of my business, nor are mine theirs. </p>
<p>Every now and then, I&#8217;ll see a thread like the one you&#8217;ve posted above. People can&#8217;t just leave well enough alone. Even the well-intentioned come off sounding &#8230; icky. The most awkward ones come from the people who change their status from &#8220;in a relationship&#8221; to &#8220;it&#8217;s complicated&#8221;. GAG. </p>
<p>I wish that people would just leave the relationship status thing [on FB] turned OFF.</p>
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		<title>By: Bs</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jan 2010 14:44:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I would say do not seek advice from those heavily entrenched in SM Gossip...
;-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would say do not seek advice from those heavily entrenched in SM Gossip&#8230;<br />
 <img src='http://jessicarandazza.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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